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Why Black Men and Polygamy Sucks

Why Black Men and Polygamy Sucks: A Relationship Disaster Waiting to Happen Right, let’s dive into something that’s been simmering under the surface for a while—Black men and their fascination with polygamy. It’s the new… Why Black Men and Polygamy Sucks

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6 Reasons Why You Should Ask Out Your Crush

The post argues that asking out your crush prevents lasting regret and uncertainty. It highlights benefits like closure, clarity, boosting confidence, and seizing the moment. Encouraging action, it emphasizes that the potential reward outweighs temporary rejection.

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Where to Find Single Black People in Birmingham

A Londoner explores Birmingham’s diverse dating scene for Black singles after joining Coffee Matches. They highlight local meetups, cultural events, nightlife, restaurants, churches, and online dating apps tailored for Black communities. The guide emphasizes stepping out of comfort zones and embracing various social and food settings to find meaningful connections.

Dating Granddad, Dating Older

Dating Granddad Dating Older 

Modern dating apps have led you through various stereotypes, but meeting an older Black man with classic charm changes everything. He’s distinguished with vintage tastes, expects the old-school courtship, and holds strong preferences for jazz and health routines. Dating him brings nostalgic tales, refined dressing habits, and peculiar but caring gestures. Despite his need for naps and occasional tech misunderstandings, the experience is rich with soulful conversations and a deep sense of being cherished.

How to Spot and Avoid Misogynoir

Dating as a Black woman can be a struggle, especially when encountering misogynoir from Black men. Misogynoir can manifest in various ways: from insincere flattery and insufficient emotional support to internalized colorism and dismissiveness towards feminism. The key is recognizing these signs and refusing to settle for disrespect.

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9 Signs That Your Relationship is Toxic AF

Maybe you’ve had this nagging feeling that something’s not quite right but you’re unsure if it’s just a rough patch or if it’s time to pack your emotional bags. Recognising a toxic relationship isn’t always… 9 Signs That Your Relationship is Toxic AF

The Real Reason I Don’t Murder My Exes

I’ve been watching way too much Court TV and there are so many women fighting over exes and shit. I don’t know if I’d bother scratching cars or getting into a cat fight. My skin… The Real Reason I Don’t Murder My Exes

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9 dating red flags in your 40s

In your 40s, dating can be tricky despite your wisdom and confidence. Watch out for these red flags: unresolved past issues, excessive secrecy, empty promises, overwhelming intensity, inconsistent behavior, avoidance of future plans, commitment issues, financial instability, and resistance to growth. Trust your instincts and strive for a mature, respectful relationship.

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8 90s RnB dating tips

A concert featuring 90s RnB singers evokes nostalgia for simpler dating times. The post offers eight tips to rekindle 90s romance: make phone calls, create mixtapes, be present, plan genuine dates, send handwritten notes, let things unfold naturally, dance freely, and avoid drama. Embrace connection and intentionality for authentic love.

11 types of Toxic Masculinity when dating

What is Toxic Masculinity? Types of toxic masculinity in dating is the foundation of  domestic abuse such as coercive control, misogyny and mental abuse. However some types of toxic masculinity are more subtle and need… 11 types of Toxic Masculinity when dating