Dating and using a Private Investigator
Is this Dating in 2025? I read an article recently about dating and using a private investigator by Private Investigations UK. I thought, finally! It’s not just about cheating. But, we need to get away from thinking that a P.I. is only for cheating. Sometimes you just want to know who you’re dealing with especially […]
Dating Dos and Don’ts After Divorce
Dating Dos and Don’ts After Divorce Congratulations! You survived the emotional equivalent of being run over by a bus — a divorce. Now that the paperwork is signed you’re considering dipping your toe back into the dating pool. And Dating December is always a tricky time now that you have to renegotiate family time. But […]
6 Best Kept Secret Places to Find Love Online
6 Best Kept Secret Places to Find Love Online Dating December is just over the hump mark and we’re still looking! Where on earth do you find love these days without accidentally swiping right on your cousin? No shade to dating apps (ok, maybe a little shade), but if you’re tired of algorithms and profiles […]
Christmas Gifts When You’re Just Dating
Christmas Gifts When You’re Just Dating So, you’ve met someone fabulous. The banter is flowing, and you’re already planning future dates in your head. But wait, Christmas is just around the corner. What do you buy for someone you’ve only just started dating? Don’t worry, I’ve got you covered with thoughtful, budget-friendly Christmas gifts when […]
How to Avoid Dating Narcissists
How to Avoid Dating Narcissists: A Guide to Love Without the Drama Ah, dating in London. A city teeming with possibility—and people who look like they’ve stepped off the cover of GQ but talk like they’ve never heard the word “empathy.” If you’ve been out there long enough, you’ve probably bumped into a narcissist or […]
Tis the season to meet a narcissist
Tis the season to meet a narcissist: 10 ways to spot a narcissist With all the Christmas get togethers and pressure to date this December you will be hard pressed NOT to trip and fall onto a narcissists. Tis the season to meet a narcissist because they love to hunt for new prey. Here are […]
How to Date Dads at Christmas
How to Date Dads at Christmas Dating December: The season of joy, mulled wine, and awkwardly untangling fairy lights while pretending not to side-eye your situationship. But dating dads at Christmas is a very specific vibe. It’s part rom-com, part family sitcom, and part “am I actually auditioning to be a step-parent here?” Fear […]
Why Women Shouldn’t Change Their Names
Why Women Shouldn’t Change Their Names Just come back from the Passport office (am I the ONLY person who didn’t know that the London office moved to Customs House? I almost went to Victoria but I digress) where I finally decided to reclaim my full name back after over a decade of divorce. I swear […]
Do Black Women Really Benefit from Polygamy?
Do Black Women Really Benefit from Polygamy? Let’s Be Honest. Oh, polygamy! That old chestnut some people are still trying to sell as a “solution” for modern relationships. We’ve all heard the arguments, right? That polygamy offers stability, more hands to share the load, and some form of community. But here’s the question on my […]
Why Black Men and Polygamy Sucks
Why Black Men and Polygamy Sucks: A Relationship Disaster Waiting to Happen Right, let’s dive into something that’s been simmering under the surface for a while—Black men and their fascination with polygamy. It’s the new Passport Bro. Men that aren’t able to make singular relationships work are not looking to get multiple women or foreign […]