How to Spot and Avoid Misogynoir
Dating as a Black woman can be a struggle, especially when encountering misogynoir from Black men. Misogynoir can manifest in various ways: from insincere flattery and insufficient emotional support to internalized colorism and dismissiveness towards feminism. The key is recognizing these signs and refusing to settle for disrespect.
9 Signs That Your Relationship is Toxic AF
Maybe you’ve had this nagging feeling that something’s not quite right but you’re unsure if it’s just a rough patch or if it’s time to pack your emotional bags. Recognising a toxic relationship isn’t always easy, especially when you’re caught up in love (or what feels like love). But trust me, if you notice these […]
The Real Reason I Don’t Murder My Exes
I’ve been watching way too much Court TV and there are so many women fighting over exes and shit. I don’t know if I’d bother scratching cars or getting into a cat fight. My skin scars easily. But, hear me out, if murder for breach of promise was legal (infidelity, stealing, timewasting) then …well I […]
9 dating red flags in your 40s
In your 40s, dating can be tricky despite your wisdom and confidence. Watch out for these red flags: unresolved past issues, excessive secrecy, empty promises, overwhelming intensity, inconsistent behavior, avoidance of future plans, commitment issues, financial instability, and resistance to growth. Trust your instincts and strive for a mature, respectful relationship.
8 90s RnB dating tips
A concert featuring 90s RnB singers evokes nostalgia for simpler dating times. The post offers eight tips to rekindle 90s romance: make phone calls, create mixtapes, be present, plan genuine dates, send handwritten notes, let things unfold naturally, dance freely, and avoid drama. Embrace connection and intentionality for authentic love.
11 types of Toxic Masculinity when dating
What is Toxic Masculinity? Types of toxic masculinity in dating is the foundation of domestic abuse such as coercive control, misogyny and mental abuse. However some types of toxic masculinity are more subtle and need to be addressed to ensure that both parties are feeling loved and flourishing in the relationship. Toxic masculinity refers to […]
12 types of toxic femininity when dating
Toxic femininity when dating is growing. I’ve recently left a number of facebook groups based on behaviours by women that were being endorsed by other women. Tricking men into fathering children, getting away with cheating etc. And it got me thinking that toxic femininity has become rife in these internet streets. Toxic femininity, like toxic […]
