Christmas Gifts When You’re Just Dating

Christmas Gifts When You’re Just Dating So, you’ve met someone fabulous. The banter is flowing, and you’re already planning future dates in your head. But wait, Christmas is just around the corner. What do you buy for someone you’ve only just started dating? Don’t worry, I’ve got you covered with thoughtful, budget-friendly Christmas gifts when […]
How to Avoid Dating Narcissists

How to Avoid Dating Narcissists: A Guide to Love Without the Drama Ah, dating in London. A city teeming with possibility—and people who look like they’ve stepped off the cover of GQ but talk like they’ve never heard the word “empathy.” If you’ve been out there long enough, you’ve probably bumped into a narcissist or […]
Tis the season to meet a narcissist

Tis the season to meet a narcissist: 10 ways to spot a narcissist With all the Christmas get togethers and pressure to date this December you will be hard pressed NOT to trip and fall onto a narcissists. Tis the season to meet a narcissist because they love to hunt for new prey. Here are […]
How to Date Dads at Christmas

How to Date Dads at Christmas Dating December: The season of joy, mulled wine, and awkwardly untangling fairy lights while pretending not to side-eye your situationship. But dating dads at Christmas is a very specific vibe. It’s part rom-com, part family sitcom, and part “am I actually auditioning to be a step-parent here?” Fear […]
Why Women Shouldn’t Change Their Names

Why Women Shouldn’t Change Their Names Just come back from the Passport office (am I the ONLY person who didn’t know that the London office moved to Customs House? I almost went to Victoria but I digress) where I finally decided to reclaim my full name back after over a decade of divorce. I swear […]
Do Black Women Really Benefit from Polygamy?

Do Black Women Really Benefit from Polygamy? Let’s Be Honest. Oh, polygamy! That old chestnut some people are still trying to sell as a “solution” for modern relationships. We’ve all heard the arguments, right? That polygamy offers stability, more hands to share the load, and some form of community. But here’s the question on my […]
Why Black Men and Polygamy Sucks

Why Black Men and Polygamy Sucks: A Relationship Disaster Waiting to Happen Right, let’s dive into something that’s been simmering under the surface for a while—Black men and their fascination with polygamy. It’s the new Passport Bro. Men that aren’t able to make singular relationships work are not looking to get multiple women or foreign […]
6 Reasons Why You Should Ask Out Your Crush

The post argues that asking out your crush prevents lasting regret and uncertainty. It highlights benefits like closure, clarity, boosting confidence, and seizing the moment. Encouraging action, it emphasizes that the potential reward outweighs temporary rejection.
Where to Find Single Black People in Birmingham

A Londoner explores Birmingham’s diverse dating scene for Black singles after joining Coffee Matches. They highlight local meetups, cultural events, nightlife, restaurants, churches, and online dating apps tailored for Black communities. The guide emphasizes stepping out of comfort zones and embracing various social and food settings to find meaningful connections.
Dating Granddad Dating Older

Modern dating apps have led you through various stereotypes, but meeting an older Black man with classic charm changes everything. He’s distinguished with vintage tastes, expects the old-school courtship, and holds strong preferences for jazz and health routines. Dating him brings nostalgic tales, refined dressing habits, and peculiar but caring gestures. Despite his need for naps and occasional tech misunderstandings, the experience is rich with soulful conversations and a deep sense of being cherished.