The Eager Easter Bummy
The Eager Easter Bummy: Why We’re Too Grown to Be the Backup to the Backup Yesterday, I attended an Easter event in London and, as always, I went in with open vibes and low expectations. Why? Because when it comes to Black events in London, you never know if you’re walking into your future or […]
You Know It’s a One Night Stand When
BlYou know it’s a one night stand when… : Babes, let’s talk. Not every situationship is a situationship. Sometimes it’s not even a fling. Sometimes… it’s just a one night stand. And no, there’s no shame in that. What is shameful is trying to stretch that Poundland encounter into a Waitrose romance. Let’s stop playing. […]
When He Doesn’t Like You That Much
When he doesn’t like you that much: There’s a special kind of delusion we enter when we like someone more than they like us. It’s soft, warm, slightly unhinged — like a love-induced fever dream. You know, the one where you’re starring in your own romantic drama, and he’s… well, he’s just not answering the […]
7 Ways to Reset After a Break-Up
7 ways to reset after a Break-up So, you’ve just survived a break-up. Whether it ended with a dramatic “take care” text, a quiet mutual understanding, or you suddenly found your ex on holiday with their “cousin” from Peckham, the fact remains: you’re back on the streets. And not the fun, “I’m 21 and just […]
6 Cringe worthy Questions Women Dating Should Stop Asking
6 Cringe worthy Questions Women Dating Should Stop Asking: Dating these days is already like finding the perfect plantain—ripe, sweet, and without disappointment. So, why are we making it harder for ourselves with these awkward questions? We’re older, wiser, and frankly, too grown for certain nonsense.Sometimes, it’s us asking the cringeworthy questions that make men […]
6 Cringeworthy Dating Questions
6 Cringeworthy Dating Questions : Dating in the UK is a unique experience, especially as a Black woman. Between dodging microaggressions and cultural misunderstandings, you’d think the bare minimum we could get is decent conversation. But no, some men insist on coming with tired, outdated questions that leave us rolling our eyes harder than the aunties […]
Dating on a budget in London
Dating on a Budget in London It’s January, it’s freezing and you promised yourself that 2025 you were going to get yourself that relationship you deserve. But, dating in London isn’t easy, Fam. The city of red buses, endless coffee shops, and overpriced cocktails. While it’s a magical place to date, it’s also one where […]
Dating and using a Private Investigator
Is this Dating in 2025? I read an article recently about dating and using a private investigator by Private Investigations UK. I thought, finally! It’s not just about cheating. But, we need to get away from thinking that a P.I. is only for cheating. Sometimes you just want to know who you’re dealing with especially […]
Dating Dos and Don’ts After Divorce
Dating Dos and Don’ts After Divorce Congratulations! You survived the emotional equivalent of being run over by a bus — a divorce. Now that the paperwork is signed you’re considering dipping your toe back into the dating pool. And Dating December is always a tricky time now that you have to renegotiate family time. But […]
6 Best Kept Secret Places to Find Love Online
6 Best Kept Secret Places to Find Love Online Dating December is just over the hump mark and we’re still looking! Where on earth do you find love these days without accidentally swiping right on your cousin? No shade to dating apps (ok, maybe a little shade), but if you’re tired of algorithms and profiles […]