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Dating is Dead

Dating December and Breadcrumbing 

Dating December and Breadcrumbing: The commitment phobes’ favourite torture tool . This is part of the Dating December Series. The time when you are most likely to meet someone and start dating.   Another day, another… Dating December and Breadcrumbing 

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7 Signs You Are Sex-Depressed

7 Signs You Are Sex-Depressed Ah, sex. The three-letter word that makes the world go round… or at least keeps it spinning on something. But what happens when you’re stuck in neutral? It’s normal to… 7 Signs You Are Sex-Depressed

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Why Women Shouldn’t Change Their Names

Why Women Shouldn’t Change Their Names Just come back from the Passport office (am I the ONLY person who didn’t know that the London office moved to Customs House? I almost went to Victoria but… Why Women Shouldn’t Change Their Names

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Do Black Women Really Benefit from Polygamy?

Do Black Women Really Benefit from Polygamy? Let’s Be Honest. Oh, polygamy! That old chestnut some people are still trying to sell as a “solution” for modern relationships. We’ve all heard the arguments, right? That… Do Black Women Really Benefit from Polygamy?

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Why Black Men and Polygamy Sucks

Why Black Men and Polygamy Sucks: A Relationship Disaster Waiting to Happen Right, let’s dive into something that’s been simmering under the surface for a while—Black men and their fascination with polygamy. It’s the new… Why Black Men and Polygamy Sucks

Why African Polygamy Doesn’t Work in the UK

Why African Polygamy Doesn’t Work in the UK: A Culture Clash Too Big to Handle Yesterday I was at the Black Business Show representing Coffee Matches and a dude came up talking about he wanted… Why African Polygamy Doesn’t Work in the UK

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6 Reasons Why You Should Ask Out Your Crush

The post argues that asking out your crush prevents lasting regret and uncertainty. It highlights benefits like closure, clarity, boosting confidence, and seizing the moment. Encouraging action, it emphasizes that the potential reward outweighs temporary rejection.

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Women making the first move

How to make the first move – a wily woman’s guide  You’ve heard it all before: “Let the man take the lead,” “Don’t come on too strong,” or my personal favorite, “Men don’t like masculine… Women making the first move

P Diddy Protected

Why Black Women Protect Hip Hop

Why Black Women protect Hip Hop : This is a longer exploration of the Will Hip Hop Be Affected by #MeToo? Hey Black Women, quick question. Why are we still protecting Hip Hop? We’ve seen the… Why Black Women Protect Hip Hop

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Will Hip Hop Be Affected by #MeToo?

Will Hip Hop Be Affected by #MeToo? I’ve never been so happy that a #TBT on Diddy didn’t age well. (Link has more live news for those that are following his demise in real tie.… Will Hip Hop Be Affected by #MeToo?