Where to Find Black Men in London Part 2
Looking for your Santa? The old age question when you are committed to Black Love is, “Where to Find Black Men in London?” Dating December means there are hella events to choose from. We’ve already covered the Christmas Party but alcohol can be a deceiver so be careful of those beer goggles. No this is a concise re-look at Where to Find Black Men in London.
- Sports Events
Catch a game but time it right. Aim for pre-game or half-time mingling. Cricket matches? More relaxed. Football? Intense, but you’ll spot passionate fans. Boxing nights? Definitely worth a go—lots of energy, and post-match bars are buzzing. - Hip-Hop Concerts
Stick to pure hip-hop—think Kendrick Lamar or Nas—not R&B (unless you’re up for dodging couples swaying to slow jams). It’s where you’ll find men who love a good beat and probably have stories of their own. Be strategic and be safe. I still have bruises from men dancing to Hip Hop in the noughties and not realising I was standing there. - Comedy Nights
Head to shows featuring acts like Richard Blackwood or Slim. You might not laugh at every joke, but the male-dominated audience makes it worth it. Bonus: it’s a great conversation starter—”Did you actually find him funny?” - Business Seminars
Networking vibes with a sprinkle of ambition. Pick wisely, though. If it’s called “Alpha Male Mastery” or has a preacher’s cadence in the promos, skip it unless you’re researching red flags. Look for tech or creative industry talks instead—more fresh ideas, less heavy-handed dogma. - Activity-Based Classes
Forget running clubs—too many brooding loners. Opt for something more interactive, like dance classes (salsa has great energy) or even a cooking course. People bond over mutual struggles—like learning to not burn the béchamel sauce. - Nerdy Gatherings
Gaming expos, comic cons, or book signings for sci-fi/fantasy authors. It’s a hidden gem: nerd-heavy, male-skewed, and super friendly. Bonus points for dressing up as Storm; who doesn’t love an X-Men reference? - Spoken Word and Poetry Slams
Deep, introspective vibes—perfect for meeting someone who loves conversation. Just steer clear of anyone snapping their fingers too enthusiastically; they might be “processing a breakup” rather than mingling. - Fitness Classes that Require Instruction
Kickboxing, climbing gyms, or CrossFit. You’re learning together, there’s less pressure, and it’s more collaborative than solo treadmill zones. Follow them on insta afterwards and boom! You’re good to go.
Happy Dating December!
© Chelsea Black ® 2024
