Will Hip Hop Be Affected by #MeToo?
Will Hip Hop Be Affected by #MeToo? I’ve never been so happy that a #TBT on Diddy didn’t age well. (Link has more live news for those that are following his demise in real tie.…
ShxtsNGigs and Misogynoir
Here we go again with ShxtsNGigs and Misogynoir. I feel like I’ve been writing about misogynoir for years and lots of people shrug like, not our problem. It’s 2024, and yet here we are, still…
Where to Find Single Black People in Birmingham
A Londoner explores Birmingham’s diverse dating scene for Black singles after joining Coffee Matches. They highlight local meetups, cultural events, nightlife, restaurants, churches, and online dating apps tailored for Black communities. The guide emphasizes stepping…
Dating Granddad Dating Older
Modern dating apps have led you through various stereotypes, but meeting an older Black man with classic charm changes everything. He’s distinguished with vintage tastes, expects the old-school courtship, and holds strong preferences for jazz…
How to Spot and Avoid Misogynoir
Dating as a Black woman can be a struggle, especially when encountering misogynoir from Black men. Misogynoir can manifest in various ways: from insincere flattery and insufficient emotional support to internalized colorism and dismissiveness towards…
9 Signs That Your Relationship is Toxic AF
Maybe you’ve had this nagging feeling that something’s not quite right but you’re unsure if it’s just a rough patch or if it’s time to pack your emotional bags. Recognising a toxic relationship isn’t always…
The Real Reason I Don’t Murder My Exes
I’ve been watching way too much Court TV and there are so many women fighting over exes and shit. I don’t know if I’d bother scratching cars or getting into a cat fight. My skin…
Rebecca Cheptegei: How Women Can Stay Safe from Domestic Abuse
Rebecca Cheptegei: How Women Can Stay Safe from Domestic Abuse It’s taken a couple of days to write this one as it’s so upsetting. In yet another heartbreaking incident, Uganda and Africa has lost a…
Stuck in the Talking Stage
Stuck in the Talking Stage: How to Break into Real Dating You know the drill. You’re swiping through Tinder, Bumble, Hinge—whatever your vice of choice is—and you finally match with someone who seems promising. You…
9 dating red flags in your 40s
In your 40s, dating can be tricky despite your wisdom and confidence. Watch out for these red flags: unresolved past issues, excessive secrecy, empty promises, overwhelming intensity, inconsistent behavior, avoidance of future plans, commitment issues,…