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ShxtsNGigs and Misogynoir

Here we go again with ShxtsNGigs and Misogynoir. I feel like I’ve been writing about misogynoir for years and lots of people shrug like, not our problem. It’s 2024, and yet here we are, still… ShxtsNGigs and Misogynoir

Birmingham City Centre

Where to Find Single Black People in Birmingham

A Londoner explores Birmingham’s diverse dating scene for Black singles after joining Coffee Matches. They highlight local meetups, cultural events, nightlife, restaurants, churches, and online dating apps tailored for Black communities. The guide emphasizes stepping out of comfort zones and embracing various social and food settings to find meaningful connections.

Dating Granddad, Dating Older

Dating Granddad Dating Older 

Modern dating apps have led you through various stereotypes, but meeting an older Black man with classic charm changes everything. He’s distinguished with vintage tastes, expects the old-school courtship, and holds strong preferences for jazz and health routines. Dating him brings nostalgic tales, refined dressing habits, and peculiar but caring gestures. Despite his need for naps and occasional tech misunderstandings, the experience is rich with soulful conversations and a deep sense of being cherished.

How to Spot and Avoid Misogynoir

Dating as a Black woman can be a struggle, especially when encountering misogynoir from Black men. Misogynoir can manifest in various ways: from insincere flattery and insufficient emotional support to internalized colorism and dismissiveness towards feminism. The key is recognizing these signs and refusing to settle for disrespect.

Toxic relationship

9 Signs That Your Relationship is Toxic AF

Maybe you’ve had this nagging feeling that something’s not quite right but you’re unsure if it’s just a rough patch or if it’s time to pack your emotional bags. Recognising a toxic relationship isn’t always… 9 Signs That Your Relationship is Toxic AF

The Real Reason I Don’t Murder My Exes

I’ve been watching way too much Court TV and there are so many women fighting over exes and shit. I don’t know if I’d bother scratching cars or getting into a cat fight. My skin… The Real Reason I Don’t Murder My Exes

Rebecca Cheptegei: How Women Can Stay Safe from Domestic Abuse

Rebecca Cheptegei: How Women Can Stay Safe from Domestic Abuse It’s taken a couple of days to write this one as it’s so upsetting. In yet another heartbreaking incident, Uganda and Africa has lost a… Rebecca Cheptegei: How Women Can Stay Safe from Domestic Abuse

Dating Apps

Stuck in the Talking Stage

Stuck in the Talking Stage: How to Break into Real Dating You know the drill. You’re swiping through Tinder, Bumble, Hinge—whatever your vice of choice is—and you finally match with someone who seems promising. You… Stuck in the Talking Stage

dating red flags

9 dating red flags in your 40s

In your 40s, dating can be tricky despite your wisdom and confidence. Watch out for these red flags: unresolved past issues, excessive secrecy, empty promises, overwhelming intensity, inconsistent behavior, avoidance of future plans, commitment issues, financial instability, and resistance to growth. Trust your instincts and strive for a mature, respectful relationship.

90s RnB dating

8 90s RnB dating tips

A concert featuring 90s RnB singers evokes nostalgia for simpler dating times. The post offers eight tips to rekindle 90s romance: make phone calls, create mixtapes, be present, plan genuine dates, send handwritten notes, let things unfold naturally, dance freely, and avoid drama. Embrace connection and intentionality for authentic love.