Why cheating still sucks
Why cheating still sucks. Why Cheating still sucks: As I was faffing around the other day I took an attachment style quiz and figured out that my attachment style was secure. No surprises there. Some…
My Toxic Relationship with Facebook
My Toxic Relationship with Facebook Facebook Jail So I was in Facebook Jail, again. This time for 3 days which is a nonsense because the charge? Being sexist against women. And so This is…
5 signs that he is Bad in Bed
5 signs that he’s Bad in Bed 5 signs that he is Bad in Bed: So an old school friend called me and we got onto the subject of dating and sex. She described a…
Spit or Swallow Etiquette
Spit or Swallow Etiquette Spit or Swallow Etiquette: It’s Sunday and I’m feeling somewhat philosophical. And so it’s time for the old age existential question: Spit or swallow? Etiquette in sex is a murky backwash…
7 Types of Men you date
7 Types of Men you date 7 Types of Men you date: A friend of mine asked me about the categories of men (fondly referred to as Penis) out there in the dating world. There…
Preference and Prejudice
Preference and Prejudice Preference and Prejudice: ‘That’s just my preference’ with a Kanye style shrug has become the norm in our dating reality. I watch people squirm as they try to justify why they only…
Black Fatigue and Dating
Black Fatigue and Dating Black Fatigue and Dating: I’m going to try to keep this relatively short as I could rant about race for hours and nobody, apparently, has time for that. It’s a burden…
5 4 3 2 1 – Last chance weekend !!!
5 4 3 2 1 – Last chance weekend !!! My brothers. This one is aimed more at you than the women. So I’ve talked about Covid dating and of course the need to get…
Listen to me
So Listen to me used to be linked to my UJR podcast / radio show I did which combined Black gossip, dating and Black British music. I miss those days and there my be more…
Black British Cuffing Season
Black British Cuffing Season As I sit here on Bank Holiday Monday I reminisce on embarking upon a new season. No, not Autumn, Cuffing Season. That’s right, just because we are in lockdown doesn’t mean…