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Why Women Shouldn’t Change Their Names

Why Women Shouldn’t Change Their Names Just come back from the Passport office (am I the ONLY person who didn’t know that the London office moved to Customs House? I almost went to Victoria but… Why Women Shouldn’t Change Their Names

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Do Black Women Really Benefit from Polygamy?

Do Black Women Really Benefit from Polygamy? Let’s Be Honest. Oh, polygamy! That old chestnut some people are still trying to sell as a “solution” for modern relationships. We’ve all heard the arguments, right? That… Do Black Women Really Benefit from Polygamy?

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Why Black Men and Polygamy Sucks

Why Black Men and Polygamy Sucks: A Relationship Disaster Waiting to Happen Right, let’s dive into something that’s been simmering under the surface for a while—Black men and their fascination with polygamy. It’s the new… Why Black Men and Polygamy Sucks

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Dating Granddad Dating Older 

Modern dating apps have led you through various stereotypes, but meeting an older Black man with classic charm changes everything. He’s distinguished with vintage tastes, expects the old-school courtship, and holds strong preferences for jazz and health routines. Dating him brings nostalgic tales, refined dressing habits, and peculiar but caring gestures. Despite his need for naps and occasional tech misunderstandings, the experience is rich with soulful conversations and a deep sense of being cherished.

How to Spot and Avoid Misogynoir

Dating as a Black woman can be a struggle, especially when encountering misogynoir from Black men. Misogynoir can manifest in various ways: from insincere flattery and insufficient emotional support to internalized colorism and dismissiveness towards feminism. The key is recognizing these signs and refusing to settle for disrespect.

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9 Signs That Your Relationship is Toxic AF

Maybe you’ve had this nagging feeling that something’s not quite right but you’re unsure if it’s just a rough patch or if it’s time to pack your emotional bags. Recognising a toxic relationship isn’t always… 9 Signs That Your Relationship is Toxic AF

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9 dating red flags in your 40s

In your 40s, dating can be tricky despite your wisdom and confidence. Watch out for these red flags: unresolved past issues, excessive secrecy, empty promises, overwhelming intensity, inconsistent behavior, avoidance of future plans, commitment issues, financial instability, and resistance to growth. Trust your instincts and strive for a mature, respectful relationship.

11 types of Toxic Masculinity when dating

What is Toxic Masculinity? Types of toxic masculinity in dating is the foundation of  domestic abuse such as coercive control, misogyny and mental abuse. However some types of toxic masculinity are more subtle and need… 11 types of Toxic Masculinity when dating