Dating Granddad Dating Older
Modern dating apps have led you through various stereotypes, but meeting an older Black man with classic charm changes everything. He’s distinguished with vintage tastes, expects the old-school courtship, and holds strong preferences for jazz and health routines. Dating him brings nostalgic tales, refined dressing habits, and peculiar but caring gestures. Despite his need for naps and occasional tech misunderstandings, the experience is rich with soulful conversations and a deep sense of being cherished.
How to Spot and Avoid Misogynoir
Dating as a Black woman can be a struggle, especially when encountering misogynoir from Black men. Misogynoir can manifest in various ways: from insincere flattery and insufficient emotional support to internalized colorism and dismissiveness towards feminism. The key is recognizing these signs and refusing to settle for disrespect.
The Marriage Interview
The marriage interview MEET Africa Utopia was a great time. The South bank hosted events and I got to reconnect with some old friends from Africa and maybe meet some new ones. One such guy was sitting next to me at a feminism talk. I was getting out a business card for someone else and […]
The Bachelor
The Bachelor Another beast we choose to ignore in the hopes that he will change his spots. Alas my precious it is not always to be. Some men are confirmed bachelors. Happy and content somehow we women see this as a challenge. With us he will be different. We will be the ones to break […]
He’s my boyfriend
WIKI: A boyfriend is a person’s regular male companion in a romantic and/ or sexual relationship,[1] although normally not in long-term committed (e.g. marital) relationships, where other titles (e.g. husband, partner) are more commonly used. When I was a school girl this is all we talked about. To be able to give that poor unsuspecting […]
Spank dat ass
A is for: Spank dat ass Ass vs Arse This entry is as short as the word. My name is Chelsea and….. I can’t say ass. I can write it but whenever I try to say it my mouth stretches weirdly and I think of Shakespeare or donkey’s. So the words “spank that ass” are […]
The unadventurous adventurer
The unadventurous adventurer Sexually adventurous has by it’s over use become redundant. I remember when tattoos and piercings were considered signs of an adventurous nature. In fact my parents said that they were signs of promiscuity when I was growing up. I now have both. Nearly everyone I meet has some ink or piercing. I […]
Grrrrrrrr
A-Sexy: A is for Angry sex part 2 The other kind of angry sex is the sort of angry sex some men perform when they are trying to angry fuck to someone else who hurt them. This is the repressed non-consensual angry sex not to be confused with makeup sex. The thing is I’m a […]
Nothing is wrong
A is for Angry Sex part 1 There are two types of Angry sex. The first is the makeup sex or ‘we are still technically fighting’ angry sex which we have in relationships. You’ve both said I’m sorry even though it’s entirely his fault (yeah I said it, sue me) and you decide to have […]
Arrogance and Basketball
A is for Arrogance part 1 I LOVE an arrogant man. It stinks of an ambitious and able nature that this woman cannot help but admire. The unnerving self-belief is so attractive, so alluring that I’m often ready to tear their clothes off before we’ve gotten home. Make them alpha men too and that’s it. […]