5 4 3 2 1 – Last chance weekend !!!
5 4 3 2 1 – Last chance weekend !!! My brothers. This one is aimed more at you than the women. So I’ve talked about Covid dating and of course the need to get…
Listen to me
So Listen to me used to be linked to my UJR podcast / radio show I did which combined Black gossip, dating and Black British music. I miss those days and there my be more…
Dear Fixers Do not fix them
Dear Fixers, Do not fix them Dear Fixers Do not fix them: I know I normally talk to the wastemen and fuckbois out there but what about those that date them. Let’s talk about a…
I don’t want to sit on your face
I don’t want to sit on your face! Here’s the thing: Most men suck at getting new sex. We know this because scrolling through dating apps reveals their frustrations. i.e. No Time wasters or Long…
Why I unapologetically date black
A week of black protest Why I unapologetically date black: This has been a heavy week for black people. Many have questioned the global response to the racist murders in the USA but the reality…
6 Types of DM pests
6 Types of DMers As we are all at home there has been a recent phenomenon that has crept into our lives. Communication isnn’t all bad though and I’ve appreciated connecting with certain friends during…
Why Nice Guys Are Dicks
Why Nice guys are dicks If a dude calls himself a nice guy or one of the good guys the chances are he’s a dick looking to get laid. I know it sounds harsh to…
Dying for Love – Love Island Cancelled
Dying for Love? Love Island Love Island A lot of news this week about Love Island being cancelled this summer. Many people think the cancellation is due to the 3 suicides linked to the show.…
Black Love and the 90s
But for me it evoked memories. It reminded me of what was so delicious about Black Love and the 90s.
Ten Twists in Dating Courtesy of Corona Final Part
Final part of Ten Dating Twists. I’ve already been proven wrong on some! 7. More creeping So I didn’t think about how Zoom could be used for evil too. Whatsapp and messenger have all of…