Dress for Christmas Party Success
A lot of women meet their partners at work or work dos. Don’t just think about that annoying dude in IT or Procurement. Think the bar, club, restaurant you will be in. So transitioning from…
Dating December and Breadcrumbing
Dating December and Breadcrumbing: The commitment phobes’ favourite torture tool . This is part of the Dating December Series. The time when you are most likely to meet someone and start dating. Another day, another…
7 Signs You Are Sex-Depressed
7 Signs You Are Sex-Depressed Ah, sex. The three-letter word that makes the world go round… or at least keeps it spinning on something. But what happens when you’re stuck in neutral? It’s normal to…
Why Women Shouldn’t Change Their Names
Why Women Shouldn’t Change Their Names Just come back from the Passport office (am I the ONLY person who didn’t know that the London office moved to Customs House? I almost went to Victoria but…
Do Black Women Really Benefit from Polygamy?
Do Black Women Really Benefit from Polygamy? Let’s Be Honest. Oh, polygamy! That old chestnut some people are still trying to sell as a “solution” for modern relationships. We’ve all heard the arguments, right? That…
Why Black Men and Polygamy Sucks
Why Black Men and Polygamy Sucks: A Relationship Disaster Waiting to Happen Right, let’s dive into something that’s been simmering under the surface for a while—Black men and their fascination with polygamy. It’s the new…
Why African Polygamy Doesn’t Work in the UK
Why African Polygamy Doesn’t Work in the UK: A Culture Clash Too Big to Handle Yesterday I was at the Black Business Show representing Coffee Matches and a dude came up talking about he wanted…
6 Reasons Why You Should Ask Out Your Crush
The post argues that asking out your crush prevents lasting regret and uncertainty. It highlights benefits like closure, clarity, boosting confidence, and seizing the moment. Encouraging action, it emphasizes that the potential reward outweighs temporary rejection.
Women making the first move
How to make the first move – a wily woman’s guide You’ve heard it all before: “Let the man take the lead,” “Don’t come on too strong,” or my personal favorite, “Men don’t like masculine…
Why Black Women Protect Hip Hop
Why Black Women protect Hip Hop : This is a longer exploration of the Will Hip Hop Be Affected by #MeToo? Hey Black Women, quick question. Why are we still protecting Hip Hop? We’ve seen the…