The 8 dating zones
Most men are rather linear. We think their vagueness is because they’re thinking and digesting our interactions. Dissecting conversations and evaluating our emotional connections. NOPE! They are but simple creatures and there are only about 8 dating zones they will put you in. Or the F zones as I call them because, I like the […]
Stealthing
Singapore have made stealthing illegal. Stealthing is a common practise among men who think that the choice of condom use is theirs and theirs alone. You are not privy to this decision over your body. So they remove the condom and ejaculate into her instead. And many people question why stealthing is wrong. I couldn’t […]
My Alternative Valentine’s Date
So every year I go on big around Valentine’s day and get myself all in a tizz because the other person hasn’t bothered to recognise my need for the OTT. There are so many bad Valentine’s dates that I can’t be arsed to retell them all. But you’ll find them here and here and here […]
Ghosting is now orbiting
Happy start of the week All! Ghosting is now orbiting. Let me explain. Over the weekend I posted about ghosting and how I really hate it. This is not news to any of you but, this thing of people disappearing and then reappearing? Let me be clear: If you’re going to ghost me stay dead! […]
When not to text
OK so rules to texting. There are 10 times when you mustn’t text 1) When you know the other person is upset. A hey how you doin’? Text isn’t going to cut the mustard champ. 2) When you want sex but haven’t been in touch recently. Early mornings, late night texts out of the blue […]
Textual dating
Textual Dating So there is a new phenomenon sweeping the globe which I find alarming. This my precious is the art of textual dating. I say art because communication is an art that so many have yet to master . I’m alright with the concept of texting within dating as a necessary means of flirtation, […]
A Marital Affair?
After my escapades last week on Tagged I realised that visual and status honesty are important to me. Yes indeed I’m a slightly slutty romantic who wants to know that when you say you’re 5’10 I won’t be tucking you into a high chair at the ‘I enjoy fine dining’ (aka Nandos) date. In my […]
Photo faux pas part 3
F is for Photo Faux pas part 3 So here is the thing. I know that the photo is our brand and calling card and so with this photo we want to say all of the things we can’t put into words. Some people’s photos say I want you to shag me baby (aka the […]
Photo faux pas part 1
Apologies this seems to have duplicated as part 2 F is for the photo faux pas OK so I’m not the most visual of people but even I know the importance of a photo when it comes to online dating. I tend to go for three. The head shot, the body shot and the I […]
Dating photo faux pas part 2
F is for photo faux pas The better looking friends I can’t say this often enough. Know your dating value and know where you fit in with your group of friends especially visually. I know that I’m the personality loud mouth that chats to everyone. That’s my role. Therefore you will never see a photo […]