Dress for Christmas Party Success
A lot of women meet their partners at work or work dos. Don’t just think about that annoying dude in IT or Procurement. Think the bar, club, restaurant you will be in. So transitioning from…
Dating December and Breadcrumbing
Dating December and Breadcrumbing: The commitment phobes’ favourite torture tool . This is part of the Dating December Series. The time when you are most likely to meet someone and start dating. Another day, another…
7 Signs You Are Sex-Depressed
7 Signs You Are Sex-Depressed Ah, sex. The three-letter word that makes the world go round… or at least keeps it spinning on something. But what happens when you’re stuck in neutral? It’s normal to…
Why African Polygamy Doesn’t Work in the UK
Why African Polygamy Doesn’t Work in the UK: A Culture Clash Too Big to Handle Yesterday I was at the Black Business Show representing Coffee Matches and a dude came up talking about he wanted…
Women making the first move
How to make the first move – a wily woman’s guide You’ve heard it all before: “Let the man take the lead,” “Don’t come on too strong,” or my personal favorite, “Men don’t like masculine…
Why Black Women Protect Hip Hop
Why Black Women protect Hip Hop : This is a longer exploration of the Will Hip Hop Be Affected by #MeToo? Hey Black Women, quick question. Why are we still protecting Hip Hop? We’ve seen the…
Will Hip Hop Be Affected by #MeToo?
Will Hip Hop Be Affected by #MeToo? I’ve never been so happy that a #TBT on Diddy didn’t age well. (Link has more live news for those that are following his demise in real tie.…
Rebecca Cheptegei: How Women Can Stay Safe from Domestic Abuse
Rebecca Cheptegei: How Women Can Stay Safe from Domestic Abuse It’s taken a couple of days to write this one as it’s so upsetting. In yet another heartbreaking incident, Uganda and Africa has lost a…
Stuck in the Talking Stage
Stuck in the Talking Stage: How to Break into Real Dating You know the drill. You’re swiping through Tinder, Bumble, Hinge—whatever your vice of choice is—and you finally match with someone who seems promising. You…
11 types of Toxic Masculinity when dating
What is Toxic Masculinity? Types of toxic masculinity in dating is the foundation of domestic abuse such as coercive control, misogyny and mental abuse. However some types of toxic masculinity are more subtle and need…