Rebecca Cheptegei: How Women Can Stay Safe from Domestic Abuse
Rebecca Cheptegei: How Women Can Stay Safe from Domestic Abuse It’s taken a couple of days to write this one as it’s so upsetting. In yet another heartbreaking incident, Uganda and Africa has lost a beloved daughter, Rebecca Cheptegei, to the all-too-familiar scourge of domestic abuse. Rebecca Cheptegei, tragically met her end at the hands […]
Stuck in the Talking Stage
Stuck in the Talking Stage: How to Break into Real Dating You know the drill. You’re swiping through Tinder, Bumble, Hinge—whatever your vice of choice is—and you finally match with someone who seems promising. You exchange a few witty messages, maybe even get into the deep stuff (favorite pizza toppings, worst date stories, and “Would […]
11 types of Toxic Masculinity when dating
What is Toxic Masculinity? Types of toxic masculinity in dating is the foundation of domestic abuse such as coercive control, misogyny and mental abuse. However some types of toxic masculinity are more subtle and need to be addressed to ensure that both parties are feeling loved and flourishing in the relationship. Toxic masculinity refers to […]
12 types of toxic femininity when dating
Toxic femininity when dating is growing. I’ve recently left a number of facebook groups based on behaviours by women that were being endorsed by other women. Tricking men into fathering children, getting away with cheating etc. And it got me thinking that toxic femininity has become rife in these internet streets. Toxic femininity, like toxic […]
How The Black Woman Effect enables male mediocrity
The Black Woman Effect has come to social media and it’s horrible. As far as new trends go this one is giving ridiculous amounts of obtuseness. Like Black Girl Magic it’s over reaching. Suddenly, we’ve got average white men waxing poetic about how dating or marrying a Black woman has “transformed” their lives. Sounds familiar? […]
Voting and Dating Single
Today is not only American ‘Independence’ day but also the UK Elections. It’s also a good time to work out how best to vote and what other people’s votes may say about them. Voting and Dating Single takes some thinking. The Western way is to vote individually and has led to some upsets across the […]
I am not your mistress
If you are married and we meet, don’t try and mistress me. It’s the worst decision you will ever make. I have waaay too much time on my hands. I am not your mistress. Story time 7 years ago I met dude through a couple and he said he wanted to bang but wasn’t looking […]
