Gaslighting Black Women is a Supersport
Gaslighting Black women isn’t new — it’s a global Supersport. From health care to media, here’s how systemic gaslighting plays out and how we fight back.
6 Reasons why I Won’t Call You Daddy
6 Reasons why I Won’t Call You Daddy by Chelsea Black Let’s get straight to it, babes. This is not a kink-shaming safe space. Today, we need to talk about why I absolutely, unequivocally, unapologetically… 6 Reasons why I Won’t Call You Daddy
How to Date During World War 3
How to Date During World War 3 by Chelsea Black Look, I didn’t want to write this blog. I wanted to be sipping something strong with a questionable man in Barbados or Zanzibar, ghosting him… How to Date During World War 3
Why He’s Making You Pay on a Date
Why He’s Making You Pay on a Date We’ve accepted in this post-pandemic world that Dutch is the new normal—but what if he’s making you pay? Sis. Let’s talk. This is why he’s making… Why He’s Making You Pay on a Date
The Eager Easter Bummy
The Eager Easter Bummy: Why We’re Too Grown to Be the Backup to the Backup Yesterday, I attended an Easter event in London and, as always, I went in with open vibes and low expectations.… The Eager Easter Bummy
You Know It’s a One Night Stand When
BlYou know it’s a one night stand when… : Babes, let’s talk. Not every situationship is a situationship. Sometimes it’s not even a fling. Sometimes… it’s just a one night stand. And no, there’s no… You Know It’s a One Night Stand When
When He Doesn’t Like You That Much
When he doesn’t like you that much: There’s a special kind of delusion we enter when we like someone more than they like us. It’s soft, warm, slightly unhinged — like a love-induced fever dream.… When He Doesn’t Like You That Much
7 Ways to Reset After a Break-Up
7 ways to reset after a Break-up So, you’ve just survived a break-up. Whether it ended with a dramatic “take care” text, a quiet mutual understanding, or you suddenly found your ex on holiday with… 7 Ways to Reset After a Break-Up
6 Cringe worthy Questions Women Dating Should Stop Asking
6 Cringe worthy Questions Women Dating Should Stop Asking: Dating these days is already like finding the perfect plantain—ripe, sweet, and without disappointment. So, why are we making it harder for ourselves with these awkward… 6 Cringe worthy Questions Women Dating Should Stop Asking
6 Cringeworthy Dating Questions
6 Cringeworthy Dating Questions : Dating in the UK is a unique experience, especially as a Black woman. Between dodging microaggressions and cultural misunderstandings, you’d think the bare minimum we could get is decent conversation. But… 6 Cringeworthy Dating Questions