6 Reasons Why You Should Ask Out Your Crush

asking out a crush

The post argues that asking out your crush prevents lasting regret and uncertainty. It highlights benefits like closure, clarity, boosting confidence, and seizing the moment. Encouraging action, it emphasizes that the potential reward outweighs temporary rejection.

The 40s FuckIt List

40s fuckit lit

Welcome to the 40s Fuckit List. A bucketlist for all of the things you need to fuck and then let go of as you navigate your 40s The Fuck-It List for Dating in Your 40s Ah, your 40s. The decade where your tolerance for nonsense plummets faster than your metabolism after 30. And honestly? Thank […]

Get to know your dating blocks

dating blocks

What are dating blocks? Get to know your dating blocks: Dating blocks, or more commonly known as love blocks, are sort of like dealbreakers but so unconscious that some don’t even know that they have them. Whilst cockblockers are actively blocking your dating blessings dating blocks is a form of self sabotage. What many don’t […]

Are Dating Apps whack?

Dating Apps

Are Dating Apps Whack? At 8PM today I decided to re-enter the world of dating. I know my singirls. Why was I trying this again? This after a 5 year hiatus. Yeah I was so traumatised by the Frogs and Fuckeries that I wrote a book and declared myself dating retired. But, Saturday night in […]

Beware the hobosexual part 2

Beware the hobosexual part 2 Here’s Beware the hobosexual part 2 : It’s a horrible feeling to date and have to look for signs that something is not quite right with him but, alas, this is the modern age. We no longer have the security of dating without doing our due diligence. And now you […]

Black romance movies, Tyler Perry and why nobody needs another Emma movie

So Essence Magazine posted something for Valentines on the Evolution of Black Romance movies. I was excited. The Photograph and Queen and Slim have been talked about. Not sure Queen & Slim is romantic but, Yay! We need a palette cleanser after the nonsense that was Tyler Perry’s wigging, 5-day Netflix offering, right? We deserved […]

7 Reasons I love to cinema alone

eating popcorn 7 Reasons I love to cinema alone. I confess that I’m a movie moaner which is why I don’t cinema often but when I do I tend to cinema alone. I can’t be bothered with the waiting on people to turn up because I’ve got the tickets. I go solo, get a decent […]

archive revisted winter warmer blues

Chelsea Black 3 November 2010 · Winter Warmer Blues Now as we all now summer is the ultimate in finding the WW. Yes my precious the Winter Warmer. The guy we don’t mind sharing the duvet with because we know that a) body warmth in the UK means cheaper fuel bills and b) chances are […]