You Know It’s a One Night Stand When

you know it's a one night stand when

BlYou know it’s a one night stand when… : Babes, let’s talk. Not every situationship is a situationship. Sometimes it’s not even a fling. Sometimes… it’s just a one night stand. And no, there’s no shame in that. What is shameful is trying to stretch that Poundland encounter into a Waitrose romance. Let’s stop playing. […]

Why Black Men and Polygamy Sucks

polygamy fail

Why Black Men and Polygamy Sucks: A Relationship Disaster Waiting to Happen Right, let’s dive into something that’s been simmering under the surface for a while—Black men and their fascination with polygamy. It’s the new Passport Bro. Men that aren’t able to make singular relationships work are not looking to get multiple women or foreign […]

Dating Granddad Dating Older 

Dating Granddad, Dating Older

Modern dating apps have led you through various stereotypes, but meeting an older Black man with classic charm changes everything. He’s distinguished with vintage tastes, expects the old-school courtship, and holds strong preferences for jazz and health routines. Dating him brings nostalgic tales, refined dressing habits, and peculiar but caring gestures. Despite his need for naps and occasional tech misunderstandings, the experience is rich with soulful conversations and a deep sense of being cherished.

The 40s FuckIt List

40s fuckit lit

Welcome to the 40s Fuckit List. A bucketlist for all of the things you need to fuck and then let go of as you navigate your 40s The Fuck-It List for Dating in Your 40s Ah, your 40s. The decade where your tolerance for nonsense plummets faster than your metabolism after 30. And honestly? Thank […]

the singles mixer part 2

 The singles mixer part 2 Ok so I’ve said something positive about the men. I know it hurt me more than it did you my precious. I don’t typically like to say anything positive about a man unless it involves chocolate or sex and in this case it involved neither! But back to the women […]

The singles mixer

The singles mixer part 1 So the other day I helped organise a singles mixer. I know I’m unemployed and should be spending all of that time looking for a boring job that will make me bump into people on the commute because I’m angry at the world. Instead I delude myself into thinking that […]

Thank you and update

Sex Etiquette ABC Hello my Precious, We have reached the end of the 30 day challenge and I’m going to miss blogging about random things from proposing (not looking good for my 29th February proposal. He appears to be on the run) to stupid questions men and women ask. Oh and a popular choice If […]

Once upon a time

Once upon a time What better way to end than with the beginning? Once upon a time there was a thirty something year old princess who lived in a shoebox. The recession had yet to descend like a fog over London and property prices were swirling out of control. She hadn’t always lived in a […]