The F*ck Buddy

A-Sexy: F is for Fuck Buddies Let’s be clear. You are not friends with a fuck buddy. In fact you should actively dislike your FB so that your interaction is purely sexual. An FB isn’t an ex that you just want to sex. No that’s Friends with Benefits – that blurred world that doesn’t really […]
Facebook Value

A-Sexy F is for Facebook Value and Dating Value So a lot has been made in the press recently about Facebook and it’s over valuation. Those that benefited from it and those that have lost out. I’m no Economist and I don’t understand business models that are based on perceived value as opposed to revenue. […]
Plenty of Fish

Plenty of Fish So I woke up this morning after my Friday night in and there were a few new messages in my plenty of fish inbox. Oooh goody, it’s like having a virtual assistant that works for you in India whilst you sleep. Maybe this time my plenty of fish experience wouldn’t be so […]
Friday night in

A-Sexy: F is for Friday night in OR Why I don’t internet date So for the sake of some research I’ve been forced to go back to online dating. Trust me this is not something I’m doing willingly. I’m going to have to share my despair. I signed up filled in all of the BS […]
eureka!
A-sexy: E is for Eureka I have two types of eureka moments. Those that are in the bath and those that are in the sun. As I sit here in my garden fighting with some pretty aggressive unBritish ants I’m having one of those moments. He’s a lovely guy but he’s not for me. Yes […]
Equalities Dating
A-Sexy: E is for Equalities Dating Guys are always complaining about the list. And I can’t help but agree with them. There needs to be some values that you hold dear and some deal breakers to dating or a relationship otherwise you end up like me dating anything and everything in an attempt to be […]
Crushed
My friend was chatting to a girl he knew liked him because he was a bit bored and I suspect horny. He had no intention of getting with her and did explain to her that this was just banter. But he knew that she had a crush on him. I questioned why he was talking […]
Faking it part 2
A-Sexy: F is for Faking it part 2 Not that I’m encouraging this practise you understand but this is a weapon you need in your artillery if you are going to try to make a quick exit from a situation once you have sobered up or realized that when he was talking measurements he was […]
Faking it
A-sexy: F is for Faking it To Faking it or Not to Faking it? No this is not yet another piece on Jason Derulo or indeed that Channel 4 programme Faking It which I loved but couldn’t see myself ever doing. But I do have a confession. I do upon occasion fake an orgasm. Why […]
The Frenemy part 3
The frenemy part 3 I’ve only ever had one flat mate. I’m not great at sharing my space at the best of times as I have way too much fancy dress stuff so tend to hoard the space. I also throw lots of parties, have people staying over and am generally one of those people […]