9 dating red flags in your 40s
In your 40s, dating can be tricky despite your wisdom and confidence. Watch out for these red flags: unresolved past issues, excessive secrecy, empty promises, overwhelming intensity, inconsistent behavior, avoidance of future plans, commitment issues, financial instability, and resistance to growth. Trust your instincts and strive for a mature, respectful relationship.
11 types of Toxic Masculinity when dating
What is Toxic Masculinity? Types of toxic masculinity in dating is the foundation of domestic abuse such as coercive control, misogyny and mental abuse. However some types of toxic masculinity are more subtle and need to be addressed to ensure that both parties are feeling loved and flourishing in the relationship. Toxic masculinity refers to […]
6 Signs you are Dating Ready
Apart from the obvious (that you should be single), there are a lot of people who on dating apps or events dating too soon. They start the dating process before they are dating ready so the question is, how do you know if you are dating ready? Here are 6 signs that you are dating […]
Why Diddy’s Penis Power stays ‘winning’
Diddy’s Penis Power and Cassie We’ve spent the last few days being told the horrors Sean ‘P Didddy’ Combs subjected Cassie Ventura to over a 10 year relationship. There is drug abuse, sex trafficking, physical violence sexual violence and abuse as well as grooming and threatening behaviour. None of the violence is new from Diddy […]
5 Ways to Just Sex
Chatting to a guy t’other day and he described wanting Love and Sex as two different, distinct things. And that makes sense? Sometimes you don’t want a whole emotional relationship; you just want to get off and get on with your life. You’re busy. You’ve got things to do but, that porn is getting yawnsome […]
Life Love Lessons of 2022 to take into 2023
It’s the last day of the year. Another year gone and instead of ‘new year, new me’ we have to do the life love lessons of 2022 to take into 2023. Instead of resolutions it’s best to carry forward these lessons and build, no? This is my 40th blog of the year and my 750th […]
Why I hate Jeremy Clarkson on a cellular level
Once again an unfortunate looking middle aged celebrity white man has attacked a Black Woman who did nothing more but exist. But this time it’s different as he doesn’t even have to indicate why. Because it’s cellular. Jeremy Clarkson is so adamant that his hatred of Megan is cellular, thus raising the question, is Jeremy’s […]
