6 Reasons why I Won’t Call You Daddy
6 Reasons why I Won’t Call You Daddy by Chelsea Black Let’s get straight to it, babes. This is not a kink-shaming safe space. Today, we need to talk about why I absolutely, unequivocally, unapologetically…
Why Women Shouldn’t Change Their Names
Why Women Shouldn’t Change Their Names Just come back from the Passport office (am I the ONLY person who didn’t know that the London office moved to Customs House? I almost went to Victoria but…
Where to find Black Women in London
After the blog on finding Black Men in London it was time to do one on finding Black Women in London. As a Black Woman I think we are everywhere, but, apparently finding us is…
The Truth about Trauma Bombing
The truth about trauma bombing and why I’m writing about it. So the other night I went out. I happened to sit with a group where one guy decided to talk AT us. He told…
5 Ways to Just Sex
Chatting to a guy t’other day and he described wanting Love and Sex as two different, distinct things. And that makes sense? Sometimes you don’t want a whole emotional relationship; you just want to get…
The 40s FuckIt List
Welcome to the 40s Fuckit List. A bucketlist for all of the things you need to fuck and then let go of as you navigate your 40s The Fuck-It List for Dating in Your 40s…
Seven signs of Cheating
Seven signs of cheating Cheating is back! This is for those who are in a relationship and their spidey senses are telling them that all isn’t well in their relationships. This is a quick blog…
Why Money and Dating don’t mix
Beliefs This is part 3 of Money and Dating. Let’s be honest. Money is still the main reason for breakups. That and cheating. From who pays on the first date to how much to spend…
Money Questions to ask on a date
Money Questions to ask on a date: May is money month! We’ve had 4 months of recovering from 2022 and now is the time to focus. And what better way than through reviewing and refreshing…
6 signs it is a catfish video scam
6 signs it is a catfish video scam: It’s the season again! There is a new catfish scam. Yes they’re getting smarter and using technology against us now. Video catfishing is here and it’s real.…