Dating on a budget in London
Dating on a Budget in London It’s January, it’s freezing and you promised yourself that 2025 you were going to get yourself that relationship you deserve. But, dating in London isn’t easy, Fam. The city of red buses, endless coffee shops, and overpriced cocktails. While it’s a magical place to date, it’s also one where […]
Where to find Black Women in London
After the blog on finding Black Men in London it was time to do one on finding Black Women in London. As a Black Woman I think we are everywhere, but, apparently finding us is harder than we think? So this is for the Black Men looking for Black Women in London. Good luck and […]
The Truth about Trauma Bombing
The truth about trauma bombing and why I’m writing about it. So the other night I went out. I happened to sit with a group where one guy decided to talk AT us. He told us about how he’d been diagnosed with autism during the pandemic, had an abusive family especially his mother. He had […]
The 40s FuckIt List
Welcome to the 40s Fuckit List. A bucketlist for all of the things you need to fuck and then let go of as you navigate your 40s The Fuck-It List for Dating in Your 40s Ah, your 40s. The decade where your tolerance for nonsense plummets faster than your metabolism after 30. And honestly? Thank […]
7 places to find single Black men in London
Ever since the death of the soul weekender and festivals being obliterated by the pandemic it’s been even harder to find single Black men in London. You go to events and it’s filled to the brim with amazing *cough* Black women and a smattering of Black men. Many of these men aren’t necessarily the most […]
The Dating Budget: 10 money saving tips for singirls
The Dating Budget 10 money saving tips for singirls. How to date well on a budget and not lose sight of dating as fun.
Mr Waterstone
Mr. Waterstone’s I was at my hang out looking for books despite promising myself no more books until I’ve thrown out a few at home. But alas ….I am weak. Sue me, I like to read. I was bent over looking at the Film section when a man came up and said that he thought […]
The blog starts
So you know when you turn up to those business networking do da things and they tell you that everyone is going to have to do a 60 second pitch? And you’re standing there thinking to yourself, “****! I’ve got half an idea, my deodorant stopped working around noon and I’m hungry.” Well that’s how […]
Once upon a time
What better way to end than with the beginning? Once upon a time there was a thirty something year old princess who lived in a shoebox. The recession had yet to descend like a fog over London and property prices were swirling out of control. She hadn’t always lived in a shoebox. Oh no my […]
The Crazy Wait
The Crazy Wait I recently got sent this text conversation (thanks @chicbeautyblog) between a girl who had slept with a guy called Kevin and then texts him asking him out again. She then text stalked him as well as waiting outside his house to see him and…yes it got pretty crazy. I was in tears […]
