Dating on a budget in London
Dating on a Budget in London It’s January, it’s freezing and you promised yourself that 2025 you were going to get yourself that relationship you deserve. But, dating in London isn’t easy, Fam. The city…
Where to find Black Women in London
After the blog on finding Black Men in London it was time to do one on finding Black Women in London. As a Black Woman I think we are everywhere, but, apparently finding us is…
The Truth about Trauma Bombing
The truth about trauma bombing and why I’m writing about it. So the other night I went out. I happened to sit with a group where one guy decided to talk AT us. He told…
The 40s FuckIt List
Welcome to the 40s Fuckit List. A bucketlist for all of the things you need to fuck and then let go of as you navigate your 40s The Fuck-It List for Dating in Your 40s…
7 places to find single Black men in London
Ever since the death of the soul weekender and festivals being obliterated by the pandemic it’s been even harder to find single Black men in London. You go to events and it’s filled to the…
The Dating Budget: 10 money saving tips
The Dating Budget 10 money saving tips for singirls. How to date well on a budget and not lose sight of dating as fun.
Mr Waterstone
Mr. Waterstone’s I was at my hang out looking for books despite promising myself no more books until I’ve thrown out a few at home. But alas ….I am weak. Sue me, I like to…
The blog starts
So you know when you turn up to those business networking do da things and they tell you that everyone is going to have to do a 60 second pitch? And you’re standing there thinking…
Once upon a time
Once upon a time What better way to end than with the beginning? Once upon a time there was a thirty something year old princess who lived in a shoebox. The recession had yet to…
The Crazy Wait
The Crazy Wait I recently got sent this text conversation (thanks @chicbeautyblog) between a girl who had slept with a guy called Kevin and then texts him asking him out again. She then text stalked…