When He Doesn’t Like You That Much
When he doesn’t like you that much: There’s a special kind of delusion we enter when we like someone more than they like us. It’s soft, warm, slightly unhinged — like a love-induced fever dream. You know, the one where you’re starring in your own romantic drama, and he’s… well, he’s just not answering the […]
6 Cringe worthy Questions Women Dating Should Stop Asking
6 Cringe worthy Questions Women Dating Should Stop Asking: Dating these days is already like finding the perfect plantain—ripe, sweet, and without disappointment. So, why are we making it harder for ourselves with these awkward questions? We’re older, wiser, and frankly, too grown for certain nonsense.Sometimes, it’s us asking the cringeworthy questions that make men […]
Do Black Women Really Benefit from Polygamy?
Do Black Women Really Benefit from Polygamy? Let’s Be Honest. Oh, polygamy! That old chestnut some people are still trying to sell as a “solution” for modern relationships. We’ve all heard the arguments, right? That polygamy offers stability, more hands to share the load, and some form of community. But here’s the question on my […]
Where to Find Single Black People in Birmingham
A Londoner explores Birmingham’s diverse dating scene for Black singles after joining Coffee Matches. They highlight local meetups, cultural events, nightlife, restaurants, churches, and online dating apps tailored for Black communities. The guide emphasizes stepping out of comfort zones and embracing various social and food settings to find meaningful connections.
The package flight
The Package Flight: WARNING! I am writing this from a private beach in Talum so expect plenty of errors! So close friends decided to spend a month in Mexico this august. I agreed to meet them for a couple of weeks. The flight options were limited. I hate transfers and British airways were showing 2 […]
Soho Screamer part 3 – Traffic People
So the dress that was taken in for DNA testing. It was fuchsia (not red PC Kent) and was the one dress I knew I could rely on to cover Maxine my budda belly without being black. I loved that dress. Oh the adventures we have had with dress! It flatters without being slutty. A […]
Positive lies men tell pt1
I was inspired by @Leftysbetta to write the positive lies men tell. The lies we want to believe because we see them on TV and films and songs from the 90s and somewhere deep down we think this is what love is. I guess the sad part is that they are so convincing we do […]
Spank dat ass
A is for: Spank dat ass Ass vs Arse This entry is as short as the word. My name is Chelsea and….. I can’t say ass. I can write it but whenever I try to say it my mouth stretches weirdly and I think of Shakespeare or donkey’s. So the words “spank that ass” are […]
The unadventurous adventurer
The unadventurous adventurer Sexually adventurous has by it’s over use become redundant. I remember when tattoos and piercings were considered signs of an adventurous nature. In fact my parents said that they were signs of promiscuity when I was growing up. I now have both. Nearly everyone I meet has some ink or piercing. I […]
Grrrrrrrr
A-Sexy: A is for Angry sex part 2 The other kind of angry sex is the sort of angry sex some men perform when they are trying to angry fuck to someone else who hurt them. This is the repressed non-consensual angry sex not to be confused with makeup sex. The thing is I’m a […]