Seven signs of Cheating

Cheating

Seven signs of cheating  Cheating is back! This is for those who are in a relationship and their spidey senses are telling them that all isn’t well in their relationships. This is a quick blog on seven signs of cheating. There are others and there are ways to gather evidence which we’ll look at next […]

Money and Dating: Cash,credit and Copay 

cost of living dating crisis

The blog discusses managing money in dating, emphasizing the importance of understanding a partner’s financial behavior. It covers using cash budgets, the etiquette of copaying, and the significance of credit awareness in early relationships. The author argues for open financial discussions to ensure safety and fairness in dating dynamics.

Why Money and Dating don’t mix

money and dating

Beliefs  This is part 3 of Money and Dating. Let’s be honest. Money is still the main reason for breakups. That and cheating. From who pays on the first date to how much to spend on travel it’s a hard balance. So it’s imperative that you understand or know what the other person’s money beliefs […]

Money Questions to ask on a date 

May Money Month

Money Questions to ask on a date: May is money month! We’ve had 4 months of recovering from 2022 and now is the time to focus. And what better way than through reviewing and refreshing those early date questions you love to pull out? No more questions on favourite colours and animals. Dates 2-5 are […]

6 signs it is a catfish video scam 

6 signs it is a catfish video scam: It’s the season again! There is a new catfish scam. Yes they’re getting smarter and using technology against us now. Video catfishing is here and it’s real. So this is a quick blog to make you aware of the new catfish video scam and what to do […]

7 places to find single Black men in London

finding Black Men in London

Ever since the death of the soul weekender and festivals being obliterated by the pandemic it’s been even harder to find single Black men in London. You go to events and it’s filled to the brim with amazing *cough* Black women and a smattering of Black men. Many of these men aren’t necessarily the most […]

Where to meet men in London

Dear Cupid Chelsea

Where to meet men in London. L asked the internet for ideas on where to meet men in London. You’re welcome.   I wasn’t particularly surprised by the answer but given how we’ve moved on from the random meet and greet I side eye some of these? Note that this isn’t Black men specific but if […]

Beating the Dating Apps For Women

ChelseaBlack Dating

Beating the dating apps for women as opposed to men and, this tells me why I may not have been winning at dating apps. I mean, apart from the obvious, I was being honest, t’would seem that one is supposed to cater to the market they want to attract? This is all a little too […]

4 Alternatives to Dating Apps

5 REAL dating tips from your past

4 Alternatives to Dating Apps: As a society, we have become increasingly dependent on technology to help us find love. Dating apps like Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge have taken over the dating scene, making it easier to connect with people from the comfort of our own homes. However, these apps have also created a culture […]

5 football ways to find a man

football finding a man

5 football ways to find a man: This is the first in a series on Finding a Man because, apparently they are lost or have disappeared. We are starting with the current topic of the World Cup and football. There is an old, not so sage saying about finding someone with similar interests to you. […]