relationship status – are we dating?
So recently I had the talk with a young man about what we were doing. He thought we were dating. I thought we were talking. Why the big difference? I explained that as far as…
4 Tips For Single Women On Valentine’s Day
For women in relationships, Valentine’s Day expectations and lists were set in advance – you’ll have a date with your partner, and perhaps exchange some romantic gifts. But for us single women, Valentine’s Day means…
The Facebook photo CV
The Facebook Photo CV Remember when internet dating was a little bit dirty. I mean it was a sordid secret. You would meet couples and ask how they met and neither one of them could…
the marriage debate
So I’ve figured it out. It’s only taken me 30 years – yeah I’m 30 this week. Who knows what age I will be next week. Anyway I digress. Back in the olden days marriage…
disappearing acts
Disappearing Acts This is one film that I wanted to love but like every Terry McMillan book it just didn’t speak to me beyond the first 40 minutes of trying really hard to like it.…
A mutual friend
M is for: Mutual Friend So I spend a lot of time on wiki. More time than I should during work hours but that’s neither here nor there. What I have noticed when I go…
Breaking up is easy to do
B is for Breaking up is easy to do I’ve noticed that a lot of people (by this I mean men) don’t seem to know how to break up with someone. Instead they go all…
First Date who pays
First Date who pays: The Cravat So I met him through a network around Christmas. He was nigistent in his request to take me out to dinner. I wasn’t keen. He wore cravats. I wasn’t…
first date who pays?
First date who pays? That is the on going first date question. Is it fair that we women still expect that a man picks up the first date tab? And what in same sex relationships…
The Perfect Timing
I’ve started to think back on some of my relationships. Yes my precious I’ve had them. Some have lasted minutes and some years but in the back of my head I think I was trying…