The singles tax
On social media and I saw posts about the stimulus cheques everyone received this week. Someone said that the average American family only has $400 in savings. I was thinking, how is this possible? So…
Ten Dating Twists Post Corona Part 1
Introduction The situation hasn’t hit its peak yet in the western world and we are still not flattening the Corona curve because people aren’t staying indoors. That said we have to start planning for a…
Chaste Dating
So although I’m not a fan of American teen movies and worse, anything Vampiric, I have to admit that chaste dating, especially in a time of social distancing could be the answer we have all…
Coronavus Day 2 – Shout out to the real heroes
So day 2 of being at home all day and already the cabin fever has set in. I’m entertaining but there’s only so many times I can make myself laugh at Covid joked online. I…
The rise of the Fashion Feminists
The rise of The Fashion Feminists On my dating quest I came across a rare yet, increasing vocal beast known as the fashion feminist. Growing in numbers since #MeToo, this peculiar specimen is a master…
The dangers of a dating list
So you want a unicorn? Fine. Don’t date. Just post an advert or tell all of your aunties to start the search. They’ll find you someone sharp, sharp! I know my aunties have a whole whatsapp group about the single women in the family.
Beware Love bombing
Love Bomber. It’s a perfect description for a recent phenomenon our local narcissists use to draw you into their dating lair.
How Caroline Flack highlights hypocrisy and the erasure of black women
Suicide is sad. Nobody should ever feel like that’s their only solution. Some of you may feel that this is way too soon but then no journalist felt it was too soon to talk about…
Black romance movies, Tyler Perry and why nobody needs another Emma movie
So Essence Magazine posted something for Valentines on the Evolution of Black Romance movies. I was excited. The Photograph and Queen and Slim have been talked about. Not sure Queen & Slim is romantic but,…
Date Your Age
*Waves to the Uncle at the back reading this surreptitiously on his budda belly* Yes you dude. We need to talk. It’s time you learned how to date your age and why hollering at younger…