Where to Find Single Black People in Birmingham
A Londoner explores Birmingham’s diverse dating scene for Black singles after joining Coffee Matches. They highlight local meetups, cultural events, nightlife, restaurants, churches, and online dating apps tailored for Black communities. The guide emphasizes stepping out of comfort zones and embracing various social and food settings to find meaningful connections.
Dating Granddad Dating Older
Modern dating apps have led you through various stereotypes, but meeting an older Black man with classic charm changes everything. He’s distinguished with vintage tastes, expects the old-school courtship, and holds strong preferences for jazz and health routines. Dating him brings nostalgic tales, refined dressing habits, and peculiar but caring gestures. Despite his need for naps and occasional tech misunderstandings, the experience is rich with soulful conversations and a deep sense of being cherished.
How to Spot and Avoid Misogynoir
Dating as a Black woman can be a struggle, especially when encountering misogynoir from Black men. Misogynoir can manifest in various ways: from insincere flattery and insufficient emotional support to internalized colorism and dismissiveness towards feminism. The key is recognizing these signs and refusing to settle for disrespect.
9 Signs That Your Relationship is Toxic AF
Maybe you’ve had this nagging feeling that something’s not quite right but you’re unsure if it’s just a rough patch or if it’s time to pack your emotional bags. Recognising a toxic relationship isn’t always easy, especially when you’re caught up in love (or what feels like love). But trust me, if you notice these […]
9 dating red flags in your 40s
In your 40s, dating can be tricky despite your wisdom and confidence. Watch out for these red flags: unresolved past issues, excessive secrecy, empty promises, overwhelming intensity, inconsistent behavior, avoidance of future plans, commitment issues, financial instability, and resistance to growth. Trust your instincts and strive for a mature, respectful relationship.
11 types of Toxic Masculinity when dating
What is Toxic Masculinity? Types of toxic masculinity in dating is the foundation of domestic abuse such as coercive control, misogyny and mental abuse. However some types of toxic masculinity are more subtle and need to be addressed to ensure that both parties are feeling loved and flourishing in the relationship. Toxic masculinity refers to […]
Life Love Lessons of 2022 to take into 2023
It’s the last day of the year. Another year gone and instead of ‘new year, new me’ we have to do the life love lessons of 2022 to take into 2023. Instead of resolutions it’s best to carry forward these lessons and build, no? This is my 40th blog of the year and my 750th […]
