The Eager Easter Bummy
The Eager Easter Bummy: Why We’re Too Grown to Be the Backup to the Backup Yesterday, I attended an Easter event in London and, as always, I went in with open vibes and low expectations.…
You Know It’s a One Night Stand When
BlYou know it’s a one night stand when… : Babes, let’s talk. Not every situationship is a situationship. Sometimes it’s not even a fling. Sometimes… it’s just a one night stand. And no, there’s no…
7 Ways to Reset After a Break-Up
7 ways to reset after a Break-up So, you’ve just survived a break-up. Whether it ended with a dramatic “take care” text, a quiet mutual understanding, or you suddenly found your ex on holiday with…
6 Cringe worthy Questions Women Dating Should Stop Asking
6 Cringe worthy Questions Women Dating Should Stop Asking: Dating these days is already like finding the perfect plantain—ripe, sweet, and without disappointment. So, why are we making it harder for ourselves with these awkward…
6 Cringeworthy Dating Questions
6 Cringeworthy Dating Questions : Dating in the UK is a unique experience, especially as a Black woman. Between dodging microaggressions and cultural misunderstandings, you’d think the bare minimum we could get is decent conversation. But…
Dating on a budget in London
Dating on a Budget in London It’s January, it’s freezing and you promised yourself that 2025 you were going to get yourself that relationship you deserve. But, dating in London isn’t easy, Fam. The city…
Dating and using a Private Investigator
Is this Dating in 2025? I read an article recently about dating and using a private investigator by Private Investigations UK. I thought, finally! It’s not just about cheating. But, we need to get away…
6 Best Kept Secret Places to Find Love Online
6 Best Kept Secret Places to Find Love Online Dating December is just over the hump mark and we’re still looking! Where on earth do you find love these days without accidentally swiping right on…
Why Women Shouldn’t Change Their Names
Why Women Shouldn’t Change Their Names Just come back from the Passport office (am I the ONLY person who didn’t know that the London office moved to Customs House? I almost went to Victoria but…
Do Black Women Really Benefit from Polygamy?
Do Black Women Really Benefit from Polygamy? Let’s Be Honest. Oh, polygamy! That old chestnut some people are still trying to sell as a “solution” for modern relationships. We’ve all heard the arguments, right? That…