The dangers of a dating list
So you want a unicorn? Fine. Don’t date. Just post an advert or tell all of your aunties to start the search. They’ll find you someone sharp, sharp! I know my aunties have a whole…
Beware Love bombing
Love Bomber. It’s a perfect description for a recent phenomenon our local narcissists use to draw you into their dating lair.
How Caroline Flack highlights hypocrisy and the erasure of black women
Suicide is sad. Nobody should ever feel like that’s their only solution. Some of you may feel that this is way too soon but then no journalist felt it was too soon to talk about…
Date Your Age
*Waves to the Uncle at the back reading this surreptitiously on his budda belly* Yes you dude. We need to talk. It’s time you learned how to date your age and why hollering at younger…
When hips DO lie – Super bowl Snides
So apparently the recent Superbowl has hurt a subsection of men and their wives who feel that it was all too sexual. J Lo and Shakira gyrated, showed their tongues, poled danced and basically pranced…
The 8 dating zones
Most men are rather linear. We think their vagueness is because they’re thinking and digesting our interactions. Dissecting conversations and evaluating our emotional connections. NOPE! They are but simple creatures and there are only about…
The LinkedIn Narcassist
LinkedIn I’m no stranger to narcassists as you well know. But what amazes me is their bounce back rate because they can’t believe that someone really sees through their bullshit. This dude sent me a…
Do I need a boyfriend?
Do I need a boyfriend? Well, my bathroom door is squeaky. I know this because, it squeaks and it is driving me crazy. I want to fix it. Ok I want it to be fixed.…
The Bank Boo
Yesterday I had to do the post xmas money shuffle at the bank. If you move more than a few hundred they start asking you questions to make sure I’m not being scammed. I was…
Flirting isn’t hard
So I’m chatting to one of my many male friends and he tells me that women are confusing. I sigh and roll my eyes. Like seriously, this again. I gently womansplain to him that if…