Not one to take the easy route, I have decided to make finding love, dating and relationships even harder by being culturally specific. I speak of my search for the elusive Good Black Man, codename:… In search of the good black man – a practical guide
I started my secret life as a diva early. It was the 80s and my first memories include begging my parents to buy me the sound track to Flash dance. I don’t think I wanted… Respecting my Diva (Or Whitney and me part 1)
Guest post on www.spiritedstrength.com The psychic breakup So the other day I had a fight with my psychic. Or should I say ex psychic. Yes I know she is the psychic and I’m meant to… The Psychic breakup
The 80s Pick Up Artist I am often asked about how I meet so many black men. Since I abandoned the world of internet dating I must admit that it has been slower and yet… The 80s pick up artist
The spread bet dating experience It sounded too good to miss. Black dinner dating. 10 men dates in one night! Yes it was in Liberty Lounge, Aldgate East which meant a taxi in traffic to… The spread bet dating experience
The Battersea Smell There are clues to look for when you are internet dating. Old worn photos from another era, claims of a height under 5’9 (everyone knows men add 2-4 inches onto everything) and… The Battersea Smell
It all started on match.com. (Can I sue for distress?) I met a guy called John, 34, a banker from Zanzibar, 6’2 and keen. This wasn’t my usual 50+ white guy from Holland/Germany/Austria. Anyway we… My last internet date (aka why I’m on a permanent break)
There is something rather special when you meet someone and they sell themselves as a traveller, a business man, a lover of romance. Their vision for the future is exciting and their sense of humour… My Funny Valentine
Facebook groups. Gone are the days when we used to have to find dodgy chat rooms commandeered by some unemployed nutter. No, now we have legitimised chatrooms with groups that appear to be there to… It’s a group thang!
So I meet him online and we click. He’s uber intelligent and witty with hot photos to boot. Yeah I can be superficial. Sue me. Anyhoo I ask the question anything on your profile that isn’t true? This has become a standard internet date question as it avoids protests months down the line that they do it to avoid being stalked or women finding out their real identify. Like I really think their mothers named them Drlove. So he admits to being married.