Just say no
So this is it my precious. Despite all of my disastrous dates of 2008-2011 I have taken the decision to start dating again. I know, one more single black woman out there past 30 is… Just say no
Mr. Silhouette
Recently I attended a fashion awards gala. Don’t ask me why my precious but I thought it was a fun thing to do and erm, my other plans had fallen through Anyhoo, I figured that… Mr. Silhouette
The Psychic breakup
Guest post on www.spiritedstrength.com The psychic breakup So the other day I had a fight with my psychic. Or should I say ex psychic. Yes I know she is the psychic and I’m meant to… The Psychic breakup
The 80s pick up artist
The 80s Pick Up Artist I am often asked about how I meet so many black men. Since I abandoned the world of internet dating I must admit that it has been slower and yet… The 80s pick up artist
The spread bet dating experience
The spread bet dating experience It sounded too good to miss. Black dinner dating. 10 men dates in one night! Yes it was in Liberty Lounge, Aldgate East which meant a taxi in traffic to… The spread bet dating experience
The Benefits Fraud
The Benefits Fraud After The Smell I was ready to avoid Battersea altogether but then 3 things worked in the next guy’s favour. 1) He was cute. I’m a sucker for that Notting hill/ bloc… The Benefits Fraud
The Battersea Smell
The Battersea Smell There are clues to look for when you are internet dating. Old worn photos from another era, claims of a height under 5’9 (everyone knows men add 2-4 inches onto everything) and… The Battersea Smell
My last internet date (aka why I’m on a permanent break)
It all started on match.com. (Can I sue for distress?) I met a guy called John, 34, a banker from Zanzibar, 6’2 and keen. This wasn’t my usual 50+ white guy from Holland/Germany/Austria. Anyway we… My last internet date (aka why I’m on a permanent break)
My Funny Valentine
There is something rather special when you meet someone and they sell themselves as a traveller, a business man, a lover of romance. Their vision for the future is exciting and their sense of humour… My Funny Valentine
Mr. Deleted
So I meet him online and we click. He’s uber intelligent and witty with hot photos to boot. Yeah I can be superficial. Sue me. Anyhoo I ask the question anything on your profile that isn’t true? This has become a standard internet date question as it avoids protests months down the line that they do it to avoid being stalked or women finding out their real identify. Like I really think their mothers named them Drlove. So he admits to being married.