Stealthing
Singapore have made stealthing illegal. Stealthing is a common practise among men who think that the choice of condom use is theirs and theirs alone. You are not privy to this decision over your body.…
Sensing the singles mixer
So I attended a singles mixer the other day and people, we need to do better! I’m writing a guide to the singles mixer as, clearly, some people are still struggling? Why not link it…
Sex Only SOBs
Sex Only SOBs So this is just a mini rant to say that there is increasingly a type of guy friend who will be nice to you as long as they deem sex only is…
Mr Zim C2C
So today I had a meeting in the joyous wilds of one of the essexes upon seas via C2C. It’s a weird time of year to visit the seaside and with that comes the weird…
The non date date
Dear Dating Gods and Goddesses, I need your help with something. When did the non date date become a thing again? Why are we bringing this back in fashion and can you keep it safely…
My Alternative Valentine’s Date
So every year I go on big around Valentine’s day and get myself all in a tizz because the other person hasn’t bothered to recognise my need for the OTT. There are so many bad…
Ghosting is now orbiting
Happy start of the week All! Ghosting is now orbiting. Let me explain. Over the weekend I posted about ghosting and how I really hate it. This is not news to any of you but,…
Return of the ex (again)
The Dreaded ex ( no, not that one. The other, other, other, other, other one ) So as I was prepping for a meeting when I had a return of the ex (again) moment. This…
Bill’s for a first date
Bill’s restaurant just emailed because they haven’t seen me for a while? ‘Have a drink on us!’ they tell me. Bill’s for a first date was my go to reaction as there are just enough…
Street Harassment Lives
Street harassment lives ! Ladies, some of you ask where you can find a man? I’ll tell you where. The City ! I have laws about what I wear in certain areas because experience has…