The tipsy point
So the other night I was out and about. It was a picnic bbq but the grill didn’t go on until 7pm. Yeah, African time. I wasn’t impressed. A severe lack of food (this is…
Internet dating lies again
Ok so every few months I’m sold on the virtues of internet dating. It’s the classic single girl guilt trip even though I think men are on it for totally different reasons. Men are…
Bring back the simple dating days
Back in the good old dark days before the internet was the go to place for socialising and dating you had to leave you house. You needed to make an effort and call friends, see…
Extreme Dating Part 3
So I’ve looked at those that are still looking for love in all the wong paces, nooking for nub (Eddie Murphy SNL reference – apologies) But what about those that truly are ok as singletinis…
Extreme Dating Part 2
Extreme Dating Part 2 Shout it out. I’m single and I’m proud! Tell everyone you’re single and that you’re on the lookout. We tend to want to pretend that we are ok with being single…
My Memories of Nadine Gordimer
Memories of Nadine Gordimer My Memories of Nadine Gordimer: I’ve just heard that Nadine Gordimer passed away. She was a global icon and a feminist, African heroine. There’s not a lot I can say here…
Extreme Dating part 1
Extreme Dating Part 1: So there’s always a backup plan B but what do we do when this goes wrong? These days you have to have a plan E. Fuck C and D there just…
I me wed
I me wed: So last night a movie was recommended to me on youtube. It’s my own fault as I was clearly searching for all things Hallmark and this movie was Lifetime. It was…
8 Signs you’re dating crackhead (addict)
8 Signs that you may be dating crackhead (addict) Just to be clear; I don’t have enough knowledge on drugs to know the difference between crack / crystal meth/ speed etc. What I do know…
Why exes come back
Ok so we’ve talked about when exes return but we have never discussed why. Why, when they have a chance of the escape they so clearly needed do they nearly always come back! I did…