The rise of the Fashion Feminists
The rise of The Fashion Feminists On my dating quest I came across a rare yet, increasing vocal beast known as the fashion feminist. Growing in numbers since #MeToo, this peculiar specimen is a master…
Celebs Go Dating 2020
Celebs go dating is back and I don’t have much to say about this at all. I’m glad that they managed to scrape the bottom of the reality TV and soap barrel and come up…
The dangers of a dating list
So you want a unicorn? Fine. Don’t date. Just post an advert or tell all of your aunties to start the search. They’ll find you someone sharp, sharp! I know my aunties have a whole whatsapp group about the single women in the family.
Beware Love bombing
Love Bomber. It’s a perfect description for a recent phenomenon our local narcissists use to draw you into their dating lair.
How Caroline Flack highlights hypocrisy and the erasure of black women
Suicide is sad. Nobody should ever feel like that’s their only solution. Some of you may feel that this is way too soon but then no journalist felt it was too soon to talk about…
Black romance movies, Tyler Perry and why nobody needs another Emma movie
So Essence Magazine posted something for Valentines on the Evolution of Black Romance movies. I was excited. The Photograph and Queen and Slim have been talked about. Not sure Queen & Slim is romantic but,…
Date Your Age
*Waves to the Uncle at the back reading this surreptitiously on his budda belly* Yes you dude. We need to talk. It’s time you learned how to date your age and why hollering at younger…
When hips DO lie – Super bowl Snides
So apparently the recent Superbowl has hurt a subsection of men and their wives who feel that it was all too sexual. J Lo and Shakira gyrated, showed their tongues, poled danced and basically pranced…
The 8 dating zones
Most men are rather linear. We think their vagueness is because they’re thinking and digesting our interactions. Dissecting conversations and evaluating our emotional connections. NOPE! They are but simple creatures and there are only about…
The LinkedIn Narcassist
LinkedIn I’m no stranger to narcassists as you well know. But what amazes me is their bounce back rate because they can’t believe that someone really sees through their bullshit. This dude sent me a…