Facebook Value part 2
So you have to be able to put an accurate valuation on your stock. The good thing about a woman’s stock is that some of it is controllable. These two aren’t but many of the others are.
The real gap between men and women is the perception of value in both. I value someone who is on time, is fully engaged and doesn’t lie but he thinks I value the big gestures and money. Not so although of course they are nice to have. (FuBo, ask me for my list of approved retailers)
As women we seem to think that he values things that most men say they care about but actually many don’t. This is a dating stock valuation not relationships as the two are quite different to men a. So your personality could be your downfall. I’m screwed. Ok let’s go
This is inversely proportional to his age or for some must be younger. The risk of you wanting a relationship and kids increases with age and therefore devalues your stock. This is a concave bell curve though as after your child bearing years it goes back up. Hold on convex, concave….goes off to Dr. Google. An upside down bell curve?
The best thing is to choose an age you are confortable with and get away with. Don’t aim for under 30 if it’s clear that the years have not been kind. I say if you don’t want to scare them off then try for under 32. This seems to be the age at which they start to think you’ll want to pop out a sprog quickly and trap them. Oh the arrogance. Men will tell you that 27-32 is their ideal age but for many it’s 22-29. They’re just trying to avoid hearing about how inconsiderate they are.
You can lie for about 3 dates before the truth will have to come out. If you remember programmes from the seventies and they weren’t on repeat then he’s going to have figured it out.
This decreases your stock as he has to circumvent little people to get some. This is the main focus. Accessibility. Then they start to think about their economics. Some men start thinking that they were will have to start supporting your children and this freaks them out especially if they don’t have them. We are constantly told that little people are very expensive. Surprisingly those who have their own can be the most judgemental of women that have children.
In some cultures it does prove that you are fertile and can have children. So you will be able to bear more. Again this isn’t relationship, he is looked at short term issues so the chances of him getting sex whenever he wants and costs. Will he have to bring Nandos for 5 instead of 2? That’s a whole different platter.
More to follow soon on Facebook and Dating Stock value.
© Chelsea Black